STABILITYThe ability to have a safe, non-threatening and nondestructive relationship. Positive attitudes necessary to develop stability are humility and respect.
SECURITYThe ability to have a committed, reliable, and responsible relationship that grows love and trust. In order to achieve security the couple must understand responsible giving and receiving, managing money, responsible parenting, deal with gender issues, and deal with sexual issues. Positive attitudes necessary to develop security are responsibility and reliability.